How to hint at your dream engagement ring

Posted on: 11/02/2025

If you suspect that a proposal is on the horizon, you might want to consider hinting at your dream ring. While some are happy to leave this decision entirely to their partner, others are keen to have more input. After all, an engagement ring is something you'll be wearing every single day. With so many diamond ring styles and a variety of precious metals to choose from, knowing the right buzzwords and key features can help ensure you end up with a ring you truly love.

Your partner may be preoccupied with knowing how to pop the question so any help you can give them regarding your ideal style of ring will be appreciated. Here are some tips on how to secure a ring you truly love.

Discuss other jewellery

You could start up a subtle conversation about your jewellery preferences. This can help to cement key elements you're drawn to and, equally, elements you don't like. The discussion could touch on simple preferences surrounding precious metals, such as gold silver or platinum. This is a good time to mention that you'd want any new jewellery to be in keeping with your existing collection and style preferences.

After having these chats, your partner has the freedom to study your jewellery on their own accord and familiarise themselves with your desired look. You can help out by leaving some pieces out on display.

Go window-shopping

Some couples decide to go window-shopping for engagement rings before a marriage proposal takes place. If you've openly discussed the topic of marriage and feel comfortable suggesting this idea, it can be a great way to try on a good selection of rings in a pressure-free environment. Let them take the lead so you stay within the right price range, then compare your favourites.

You can be completely honest while trying on rings without worrying about offending your partner's choice, helping to remove any pressure. This is the perfect scenario for them to pay attention and take mental notes of the types of rings you prefer. Plus, you can both note down practical details, such as ring sizes. Why not pop into your nearest F.Hinds store and browse through our vast selection?

Use social media

Social media has many advantages when it comes to engagement rings. You can use it to find out exactly what you want, browsing through diamond ring styles and exploring other gemstone options until you find exactly what you want. You might naturally come across engagement-ring posts by those you follow – however, you can also search for content on platforms like Instagram and TikTok. Soon enough, the algorithm will naturally start serving you tailored content!

Take screenshots and create a folder to share either directly with your partner or close friends and family. This provides your partner with a collection of your ideas, which they can use to search for a ring on their own or share with a jeweller for expert guidance.

Comment on celebrity rings

Many of the 2025 engagement ring trends are influenced by celebs – even 'quiet celebrity engagements'. With engagement ring styles expanding every year, the options for a marriage proposal are endless. This is a good excuse to pick out some examples you'd like to point out to your partner.

If you'd prefer something a little different, let your partner know that there are other options beyond diamonds. Sometimes, people simply aren't aware of the choices available to them and, if your preferences don't line up with the norm, it's important to express these sooner rather than later. Referring to celebrity engagement rings is a great way to get these conversations going.

Utilise your friends and family

If you don't want to share your thoughts directly with your partner, make sure you brief those close to you ahead of time. You could go window-shopping with selected people, send them screenshots of your preferred diamond ring cuts and styles or simply tell them the precious metals that suit your skin tone [EC1] and let your partner decide on the finer details.

Either way, make sure it's someone you can trust to help point your partner in the right direction. Let them know who they can go to when the time comes.